Told Ya'll It Was Coming!!

Thu, 20 Aug 2009 12:48:56 GMT

So soooo much is happening and has happened in my life! First off, I'm still talking to the que Darren, I've nicknamed him Coleman/My Coleman. I know established1986 you said to stay away from the bruhs! LOL...but this one seems to be very different, and I should know; I don't eff with the bruhs on dating/relationship levels. But we went out on our first date maybe 3 weeks ago and everything was great! I have to say that the date we went on was supposed to be our second because he had to cancel the first one due to something with his fraternity. He made it up to me that night when he picked me up; he knew how bad I wanted one of those street signs that Bowie State custom designs for you and when he opened the truck door for me, there it was sitting on the seat. It read, "The Hillyer Way" and I was soooo happy! He said that he was gonna buy me flowers but, and these are his words, "Flowers die." I busted out laughing because he was right but still so funny with it! He is very gentleman-like, very chivalrous, opens and closes doors for me, escorts me by holding my arm in his arm, just treating me the way a man should treat a woman. He pays for everything, gives me his coat when I am cold, makes sure that if I'm not walking beside him than I am ahead of him so that nothing will happen to me, I love it! And he smells good! I love a man that smells good! We went to the movies to see Orphan, which by the way was very good, and he let me order whatever food and drink I wanted, held me while I was scared (and it wasn't one of those, "Oooh, let me pretend like I'm scared so he can hold me" type things, I really was scared) and afterwards I said I was hungry and he asked me what I wanted and got it for me. We drove back to my house and while I ate (he had eaten enough in the movie, LOL) we sat in his truck and talked. We talked outside for like two hours and then I started getting sleepy (it was like 2am) and he walked me to my door and I gave him a hug goodnight. We went out again to the mall a few days later and just walked around, talked and got something to eat while he looked for a purple DC hat. Pause! I forgot, we ran into beautifulsoul06 and her brother coming out of G.I. Joe and I was soo caught off guard I jumped on her. She later told me how she thought he was cute and wanted him to roo for her, LOL! After we left the mall we were just joking around and I asked him if I could jump on his back. When I went to jump he turned around to catch me in his arms and I almost fell out because I was sooo not expecting that, LOL! He's sooo fun to be with, we always have a lot of fun. He then drove me back to my house and we were outside talking again for like 2+ hours. This time we were showing eachother steps and he was trying to teach me how to hop backwards. It wasn't as easy as it looked. Then we just started talking about whatever and doing our own little individual chapter steps around his car. My baby sister came out and harrassed him some and then my dog, who just couldn't be left in the house any longer, came out and did what dogs do. After she sniffed Coleman up and down and deemed him safe, LOL. As usual, the time came where I started yawning and such and so he walked me to the door. This time was different though because he grabbed my hands and turned me towards him before I went inside. He asked me when I was going back to school and if I we would be hanging out again. I, of course, told him yes and when I was leaving to go back to school. Then he started to let me go inside but then like, closed his eyes, slightly puckered up his lips and started leaning into me. I looked at him with my face all kinds of twisted and started leaning back as he was leaning forward; then he opened his eyes to notice me leaning back and quickly rested his head on my chest, pretending as if he were going to sleep. After I laughed at him, I told him I was gonna go in and he said ok and leaned in for a hug. I hugged him really tight and he gave me a long kiss on the cheek. He has soft lips ;)
I fell asleep as soon as I hit the bed! He wore me out! (Not in that way LOL)
The next morning I was telling my mom about everything and she confirmed that yeah he was trying to kiss me. I kinda felt bad because I know he probably beat himself up about it on his way home the night before. But still, I'm not the type of girl to kiss on the first date, or even the second date for that matter. I know me and if I do that, I'm viable to start moving too fast. Plus, I've always made the guys I talk to work for my kisses, he's no exception!
We didn't see eachother again for about 4 days because we were both really busy. Him with the fraternity making him roadtrip and me getting stuff together to move back down to Richmond. Finally, we saw eachother again when he asked me to come over his house and chill with him. He lives in the city next to mines so it was nothing to drive over. He showed me his house and we decided to play Crash Bandicoot (I know, ji old!) and Madden (of course). He showed me his basement and OMGEE if it isn't Omega Psi Phi'd OWT!!! His father, who is also a que, did a DAMN good job on that basement, like it makes some women's basement look tacky! The way he has all of his acomplishments, pics, nalia, que statues and stuff set up. Even the paint on the wall, purple, white and gold looks nice! I had to give his father kudos for that one! After I admired the HOUSE that is their basement, we went upstairs, ate some cookies LOL, and he taught me how to play Madden and then we took turns playing my fave, Crash Bandicoot. Afterwards we just chilled in his room, talked, played around and took pics with my phone. I left around 10pm and we ended talking on the phone for the rest of the night.

Fast forward to my final night in town. We went to eat at Chipotle's and then he followed me home to help me pack the rest of my stuff up and put it in the car. Afterwards, we chilled in my living room and talked and stuff. He told me that he hoped I wouldn't go back to school and start to another Alpha and I laughed and told him "Hell no!". I think that was his indirect way of asking me if I would be talking to anyone. I then asked flipped it and told him that I hoped he wouldn't be talking to any AKA's and he said, "Well I mean, I already told you I'm not talking to any other girls. I hope you believe me but if you don't, I mean I don't know what to do about that..." I think he wanted to get into the conversation of whether or not we were gonna become exclusive but I didn't want to talk about that at that moment. I just wanted to enjoy our time together and relax in his arms. Around 2am he left and I decided that I would give him what he wanted, a kiss. I hugged him long and tight and then when I let go I pointed to my cheeks and he smiled and gave me a kiss. Then he pointed to his and I gave him a kiss on both sides. Then he took both of my hands in his and I puckered up and leaned in and he bent down and met my lips with his. It was just a peck but I asked him, "Are you happy now??" and he smiled and said yes. Then I puckered up again and he kissed me again and I smiled back at him...dang his lips are soft! Then we hugged again and this time he picked me up. He opened the door and we said our last goodbyes and he got in his truck and left. We talked for a little bit that night about how he would come down to visit and how I'd come up to visit him. We are less than 2 hours away from eachother so it's really nothing when you think about it.

Fast forward to now.
I got back to Richmond this past Saturday and we were talking every day and night usually. Then one night his phone started acting up and he couldn't hear me talking even though I could hear him. So he hangs up the phone....and doesn't call back for the rest of the night. I called him twice within 10 mins and no pick up. The next day, I decide I'm not calling or texting him just because I'd like to see him call or text me first for once....why did he not contact me the entire day?? So midnight rolls around and he calls me, I don't pick up, he calls again an hour later and I don't pick up. Then another hour pasts by and he texts me saying, "Babe are you not talking to me anymore or you forgot about me?" I texted him back the next morning saying that yes I was still talking to him and that I hadn't forgotten about him but that it seemed like he forgot about me and that he could call me later. That night we talked and I told him about how it seemed a little un-corteous for him to hang up the phone because of whatever problems and then not contact me back when he could to let me know what happened or what was going on, but he can be on facebook all day updating his status and such. And when asked about the text message, he told me that he missed me and that he was waiting for me to hit him up. I told him that the phone lines ran both ways and that if he wants to talk to me all he has to do is call or text and I will hit him back. He apologized, agreed about the whole phone lines running both ways and we were good after that. Idk, was I looking to deep into that whole situation? Idk it just seems like the thing to do when your phone messes up is to let that person know what happened instead of just acting like it didn't.

So today, me and him are talking and I tell him about this dude who asked me for my number and how I turned him down because I was talking to him (Coleman). So he asked me 1. Was he cuter than him (lol) and 2. Did I plan on talking to anyone down here?
I could've sworn we had this convo already but I guess men sometimes need that little reassurance. So I told him "Well do you plan on talking to others?" and he said, "If you do then I will I guess." and I repled with, "Well I like you so no if you didn't plan on talking to any girls up there." And he said "Well I like you too, and I would never do anything to hurt you intentionally and I don't want to lose or miss out on you." So I said, "Ok so I'm not going to talk to anyone and you're not going to talk to anyone. So are we exclusive??" and he texted back, "Sure why not lol." Then like 30 mins. later he texted, "But at the same time I don't want to hold you down because you said that dude was cute and I don't want to hold you back." and I told him, "You're not holding me back. Am I holding you back?" then he stopped texting me because he had to help his frat brother move some stuff....Is he second guessing being exclusive? Is he trying to go back on it and let me down easy or something? Is he saying he wants to be exclusive but doesn't want me to feel like he has me chained?? What??

Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:23:22 GMT

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Told Ya'll It Was Coming!!